The 8 Ultimate Needs In Men That All Women Should Know

The 8 Ultimate Needs In Men That All Women Should Know

 
   The point in all the relationships, is the satisfaction of mutual needs, without this condition they won't last longer, I'm here to talk about the 8 needs of men that every woman has to know if she wants to preserve her loved one.

   1.Respect: 

   If a man is not respected, he feels like what he's doing is not accepted and rejected by his mate, it could be his career, his habits no matter what. thereby a sense of anxiety is created in him and the only way to get rid of it is to distance himself from her.
 
   So a good thing to do is to accept what a man is doing which will lead us to the second need.

   2.Appraise and approval:

   What a lot of men are complaining about, is the fact that their mate is not appraising and admiring them, as contrary to the belief every human being including men needs to be complimented from time to time.

    A beautiful word to someone makes him feel relaxed and thereby comfortable in his relationship with that person.

    3.Feeling of sexual connection:

     What studies have showed is whenever men feel they're no longer connected sexually to their mate, they lose the will to maintain the relationship and go look for another woman who will satisfy this need.

     This doesn't mean that a couple needs to have sex all the time in order to stay together, sexual connection is just showing to your partner that you're still sexually available to him, it could be done by other means, a kiss... you know better than me I guess.

    4.Care for his emotions:

   Men do not accept to appear weak in front of others, appearing week includes expressing his fears, worries, complaining, sometimes crying, letting out his emotions, and the only space where they can do so is their mate or with themselves, so when you partner shows any of the signs above you have to care for him by offering help or mental assistance and not let him alone as he will perceive it as a lack of love.

  5.Let him some space:

      This comes from the fact that men got the habit of going out, discovering the world hanging out with their friends and trying to build their projects to the point that it became a need, so if you suffocate your partner by forcing him to spend a lot of time with you, he won't find any pleasure in this kind of life and will soon find a way to end the relation.
 
      A balance between the time spend together and alone must be found to satisfy the needs of the 2 parties.

    6.Physical touch:

   Just as described above, a man tend to interpret physical touch including sexual one as a sign that the women cares for him and thereby love and accepts him and what's he's doing, the more distant a woman is from her partner the more likely the relationship will end, which will lead us to the last need.

    7.Security:

    Security is the feeling of being in a durable long-lasting relationship that can be triggered by combining all the needs above, not only that but security is the result of an environment where anxiety almost does not exist, so try to avoid as mush as you can actions that cause it such as unnecessary conflicts, sadness, rejection. one of the ways to combat anxiety is to laugh from time to time and live happy moments together.

    As long as a man feels secure in his relation, there is no reason for him to end it.

   8.The Hero instinct:

   Not a lot of people talk about it despite its importance, the majority of individuals don't even realize it exists because it's a subconscious need, but as a woman you have to let your partner always feel that he's a great achiever, hence the Hero instinct name, it could be done by asking him for help or challenging him even if you don't need to sometimes, the key is to allow him to prove himself and provide value to you.

   Without feeling worthy, no men will never want to continue a relationship because it's against his hero instinct, if you are interested about ways to activate this need as it's the problem in many cases check out this Book.

Conclusion

  if you satisfy all the mutual needs you have as couple, I'm sure that your relationship will be durable and long-lasing, bringing about happiness and stability.